Mother’s Day doesn’t have to mean Hallmark. An action-packed class in belly dancing, blacksmithing, rock ’n’ roll singing, or motorcycle riding—to name just a few off-the-beaten-path options—makes a thrilling alternative to roses or bath salts.

Forget the #2 pencils and college-ruled notebook paper—back-to-school shopping these days is all about the cool lunch kit, the eco thermos, and the adorable, multi-compartmental bento box. Eat, drink, and be wary of nasty chemicals.

Sorry, darling, but you can’t always say it with flowers. Herewith, our intrepid reporter’s scout-down of East Bay jewelers who have just the thing for those occasions—graduations, proposals, anniversaries, Mother’s Day (ahem!)—when a bit of bling is required.

Whether your child plays bass, sings soprano, or aspires to be the next Frank Zappa, there’s an East Bay after-school music program designed to nurture his or her fledgling talent. Check out the distinctly different vibe of making music—and finding a niche that fits—after the dismissal bell rings.

The overwhelming choices in the world of shades, curtains, and blinds can make anyone want to, ahem, draw the drapes and go back to bed. But a little prep work, like noting your domestic decor and what kind of windows you have, can make the dreaded window covering shopping trip a snap.